If one day, you woke up tired and lost, as if looking for changes and a bit of improvement with how your life goes, what will be the first thing that you will try to do? Will you immediately end up all your commitments and start looking for those new things, or will you just continue with what you currently have while looking for that new thing? What if you can’t figure out what was wrong? Will you just pretend that the confusion don’t exist and continue with what you have started?
There will be days and times in our life that we will opt to hide what’s bothering us just to satisfy the needs of the people around us, because we believe that that is our prime purpose, to make sure that everything is in the right place. There will dilemmas and confusions as to what should we take into consideration first, ourselves or our family. There will be doubts on every decision that we will make as to who will benefit the result, is it for us or for them. But at the end of the day, we will realize that it is not right living for other people; that we need to live our life as to how we want it to be, because it is us who is sitting on the driver’s seat. Whatever decision we make or whenever the path it will lead us to, it is us who will be penalized for its result, regardless if it is good or bad, simply because it is our life, not theirs.
Maybe the reason why we feel overloaded with tons of responsibilities is because we choose to be responsible, then we find ourselves tired. We cannot blame them, but if they’re starting to be abusive and complacent that someone’s going to handle it for them that’s a different story. And that’s where we start to feel tired. When you try to talk to them and tell them that it’s time for you to concentrate on your own goals and ambitions, they will call you selfish. They will give you their undying script that it will save you a lot of money if you’re at home. Unfair, right?
So, when can we say that it’s enough? If there’s nothing’s left for us? If our last chance just pass out?
It is hard to step onto the next ladder if you know that you have things left undone. It’s also wrong if we will always run if we don’t feel satisfied with what we have. It’s unfair; on the other hand, if we will continue to blame and to give excuses that we cannot move on because of other people because we are just bewildered with the things that mock our crazy minds. Maybe it’s not them. Maybe it’s just us. Maybe we’re just unhappy on how life turns out, because after exerting all our efforts to succeed, we did not reach anything. Well, in fact, we did. It is not just what we have expecting to get.
Now, think. Are you really tired or you’re just unsatisfied?
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